Attention all fat masculine folks! You know that moment when you get invited to a more formal event and before even getting excited about attending…you think to yourself, “Shit, I have nothing to wear!” It’s so frustrating. The lack of…
A Little Nonbinary Back Story As a nonbinary person, that is, someone who’s gender exists outside of the gender binary, I’m not male or female. Not a boy or a girl. My gender is a mixed bag of characteristics that…
Breaking into the fat activism and body positive online community as a blogger has been a whirlwind the past three months. One thing I’m struggling with is the amount of hateful messages I receive from readers. The internet trolls, if you…
Happy May Everyone! In an attempt to use my (privileged) powers for good, I want to share some info on a few products that I’ve scoped out recently. If they’ve made my life a little bit easier and more enjoyable,…
I’m finding myself frustrated this week about pronouns. Or rather, the complete stubbornness around using they/them pronouns. My pronouns. It really seems like no one cares enough to just try and use them. So let’s do it. Lets talk pronouns….
As the weather starts getting warmer I’m getting more and more motivated to talk about summer wear. Now listen, I’m not a fashion expert. But I am pretty into finding comfortable clothing that fits, looks cute, and is more on…
I read this article recently talking about “mixed-weight relationships” and it got me thinking. What does that even mean? I found myself uncomfortable with it but couldn’t really pinpoint why. When I talked it through with my partner, I came…
TW: This article contains brief mention of disordered eating. My first clothing haul with ASOS didn’t go as planned. I found myself thrown into some serious haul disappointment paired with body shame. Its been a long time since I’ve been…
