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  • Fattitude

    There’s no doubt that being the partner of Fat Girl Flow has brought on some really exciting opportunities. I’ve been able to attend interesting events I would have otherwise never known about. This week I saw the film Fattitude and y’all…it brought me to life. Fattitude is a documentary about fat discrimination. It aims to […]

  • Binding for Plus Size Babes

    Lets Talk Binding! Note: When talking about binding, the terms “chest” and “breast tissue” are used throughout this post in hopes of minimizing potential for dysphoria for some readers. I’m open to suggestions if there are terms that work better for people! What is binding? Binding is a way for folks to minimize the appearance […]

  • Gender Dysphoria and Body Positivity

    OKAY Y’ALL. This is a topic I have brushed over gently in my mind, but never really explored. Why? Because I’m afraid. I’m afraid of being wrong or saying something problematic. And I still think it’s an important conversation to have. I keep finding myself wondering, can body positivity and gender dysphoria coexist? Am I […]

  • Comfy Fat’s On Youtube!

    Great news! I’ve created a Comfy Fat Youtube channel …with the help of my lovely partner, Corissa, of Fat Girl Flow! On the channel, you’ll find short vlogs of my life with Corissa (like this one), where important conversations around accessibility, self care and fat positivity, happen naturally. Additionally, you’ll get a behind the scenes […]

  • Insatiable – Do Better

    ~ Content Warning of “Insatiable – Do Better”: Fatphobia; Eating Disorders; Suicide ~ So, I heard some news today in the fat positive community about a new show Netflix is releasing in the beginning of August. It’s called Insatiable and a loose explanation of the show is that its about a fat girl and her […]

  • Overalls for The Plus Size Babe

    They’re Back… Overalls are one of those fashion trends I never thought would make a comeback. Not only that, but I absolutely, one hundred percent, never would have seen myself wearing them. I always thought they would stay in my childhood memories from the 90s. Or that they were exclusively meant for the more mature […]

  • My Favorite Plus Size Button Ups

    Attention all fat masculine folks! You know that moment when you get invited to a more formal event and before even getting excited about attending…you think to yourself, “Shit, I have nothing to wear!” It’s so frustrating. The lack of accessible plus size formal wear is astounding. You immediately have to check the calendar to […]

  • Pronoun Packs – Allies Encouraged!

    A Little Nonbinary Back Story As a nonbinary person, that is, someone who’s gender exists outside of the gender binary, I’m not male or female. Not a boy or a girl. My gender is a mixed bag of characteristics that I don’t believe need to be defined by male or female social constructs. My gender […]

  • Dealing With Internet Trolls

    Breaking into the fat activism and body positive online community as a blogger has been a whirlwind the past three months. One thing I’m struggling with is the amount of hateful messages I receive from readers. The internet trolls, if you will. Usually, the haters’ messages slide off my back, because they tend to lack imagination […]